RELATIONSHIP COACHING WITH AARON KING
Stop abandoning yourself to be loved.
You may know yourself well and still lose yourself in a relationship. When connection feels uncertain, you give more than you want to, swallow what you need to say, or try to manage how everything turns out.
I help you reclaim your sovereignty, so you can express what you want, make clearer choices, and create relationships that support the life you want to live.
You aren’t stuck. Discover your next move in a free, private 30-minute conversation with Coach King.
You can see the pattern and still get caught in it.
You’ve reflected, talked it through, and promised yourself you’ll handle it differently next time. But when something feels personal, the familiar response can still take over.
Understanding matters, and there may be more to discover beneath the reaction. What have you learned you must do to keep someone close? What feels too risky to express? And what might become possible if those old agreements no longer made the decisions for you?
Relationship King means sovereignty - not domination.
Sovereignty is having authority over your own life while staying open to connection. You can ask for what you want, hold a boundary when someone is disappointed, and return to a difficult conversation without giving up your point of view.
That freedom opens up choices. You can question old agreements, explore the intimacy you want, and decide which relationships you want to deepen or change. You bring more purpose to those choices as you discover what matters to you and what you want to create.
Over six or twelve months, we explore the patterns underneath your reactions and relationship choices, reclaim what you’ve learned to hide, and practice bringing more of yourself into how you relate.
I came to this work the hard way.
I’m Aaron King, a Jungian relationship coach helping people recognize the patterns that make them overfunction, react, appease, control, or disappear to stay connected.
Rehab saved my life. Therapy helped me function. Recovery gave me structure. But Jungian shadow work helped me face what still took over when I was triggered—and reclaim the parts of myself I had learned to abandon.
Before coaching, I spent more than 30 years helping organizations clarify who they were. Now I help people reclaim the voice, boundaries, desires, and authority they learned to trade for love, approval, or safety.
3 MINUTES WITH COACH KINGRecognizing the pattern is one thing. Interrupting what keeps pulling you back into it is another. Let me show you what I mean.
You said “never again.” Again.
What People Are Saying
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Aaron helped me understand and positively impact so many of the headaches & heartaches that plagued my external relationships by guiding me on a journey inward.
- Todd S.
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Aaron is the real deal. He is intuitive and clever, a good listener, and shares keen insights... He knows when to dig deeper and challenge me, and knows when to let silence speak.
- Bruce H.
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Aaron not only listens, he cares! He is engaging and uses his own personal experiences to be helpful. I never feel rushed or pressured, and Aaron’s coaching is well thought, relative and professional.
- Robbie P
Your Next Move with Coach King
What keeps repeating, and what would you like to make possible?
A free, private 30-minute consultation to talk about what’s happening in your relationships, what you want to create, and whether coaching together could help.
You aren’t stuck. Discover your next move in a free, private 30-minute conversation with Coach King.
Not ready to talk yet? Start with three minutes.
Before you text back, over-explain, appease, shut down, or explode, take three minutes to come back to yourself.
The free Relationship Self-Rule Reset is a short guided practice for interrupting the reaction, hearing your own voice, and choosing what happens next.
No homework. No philosophy lesson. Just a way to return to yourself when the relationship feels louder than you are.
