A 12-Month Private Coaching Experience
Stop repeating the relationship you inherited. Start creating the relationship you choose.
Most relationship programs begin with communication strategies, dating advice, or boundaries.
Relationship King begins underneath all of that.
Because you can know exactly what you should say and still be unable to say it. You can understand your attachment style and still panic when someone pulls away. You can promise yourself “never again” and still find yourself chasing, pleasing, controlling, performing, disappearing, or settling.
That is not a lack of information.
It is an unconscious relationship pattern.
Over twelve months, we first uncover and integrate the parts of you that have been running your relationships from the shadows. Then we develop the conscious, integrated identity capable of creating intimacy without self-abandonment.
The first six months are about becoming your own relational authority.
The second six months are about becoming a free relational self: someone who can love deeply without disappearing, receive without performing, set boundaries without collapsing, and choose relationships without abandoning themselves.
This is the journey from:
Fuck me: Why does this keep happening to me?
Fuck this: I can finally see the pattern.
Fuck off: I will no longer betray myself to keep the connection.
Fuck yeah: I know who I am, what I desire, and how I choose to love.
A private conversation about where you are, what keeps repeating, and whether this work is the right fit.
Relationship King may be right for you if…
You understand your pattern but still cannot stop repeating it.
You lose your voice, boundaries, or sense of self in relationships.
You are healing from a painful relationship or preparing to relate differently.
You want intimacy without sacrificing your identity, autonomy, or truth.
You do not need to be in a relationship—or know whether you should stay or leave—to begin.
The Relationship King Journey
The program is structured in two six-month phases. You begin with the First Reign and decide near its completion whether continuing into the Second Reign serves your goals.
Months 1–6: Take Back Your Crown
Before you can create a new relationship, you have to stop being unconsciously ruled by the old one.
Months 1–2: See the Pattern
Identify the triggers, protective roles, emotional agreements, and repeating dynamics shaping how you relate.
Months 3–4: Reclaim the Shadow
Recover the needs, feelings, desires, anger, vulnerability, and authority you learned to suppress to remain safe or loved.
Months 5–6: Build Your Relational Spine
Strengthen your voice, boundaries, self-trust, standards, and ability to remain yourself when relationships become emotionally charged.
During month five, the Crown Review gives us space to assess your progress and decide what support will best serve you next.
At the end of the First Reign, you may:
Graduate
Leave with an integration plan and practices for continuing the work independently.
Enter a Maintenance Bridge
Continue with lighter monthly support while your new patterns stabilize.
Continue into the Second Reign
Deepen the work by developing the identity, relationships, and life you want to rule.
Months 7–12: Benevolent Rule
Once you are no longer ruled by old patterns, the work becomes choosing who you want to become.
Months 7–8: Claim Your Authority
Clarify your values, desires, standards, and personal definition of relational sovereignty.
Months 9–10: Practice a New Way of Relating
Apply your work to communication, intimacy, conflict, dating, partnership, family, and professional relationships.
Months 11–12: Embody the King or Queen
Integrate the parts of yourself you have reclaimed and create a sustainable way of living, loving, and leading from self-trust.
During month eleven, the Sovereignty Review helps consolidate your progress and prepare for life beyond the program.
You complete the journey with a personal Relationship Constitution—a clear expression of your values, boundaries, needs, practices, and commitments for the relationships ahead.
The Results
Relationship King is not about becoming dominant, invulnerable, or emotionally self-sufficient. It is not ego polishing. It is benevolent self-rule. It’s the ability to govern your own behavior without trying to control everyone else’s. To protect your dignity without closing your heart. To recognize what you desire, ask for it clearly, and survive the answer.
You will still care. You will still need. You will still feel deeply. But you will no longer have to disappear, perform, pursue, control, or betray yourself to remain connected. You become the King of your own nervous system, the author of your identity, and a free participant in the relationships you choose, not power over someone else. This is self possession.
Choose the Commitment That Fits Your Journey
You can begin with a six-month foundation and then continue in three-month increments as your work evolves. At each transition, we’ll assess your progress, clarify what you want next, and decide together whether more coaching would be valuable. Goals often change as deeper patterns shift, opening the door to new areas of growth.
Our intention is not to keep you in coaching indefinitely, but to create meaningful results within the time we have together. Clients who are ready to commit to the full experience and pay in advance receive a substantial discount.
A private 30 minute conversation about where you are, what keeps repeating, and whether this work is the right fit.
A 6-Month Private Coaching Experience
Go beneath the pattern, reclaim yourvoice and self-trust, and build the relational spine to choose differently.
A 12-Month Private Coaching Experience
Transform the unconscious patterns you inherited and become free to love deeply without losing yourself.
What’s Included?
Relationship King is a twelve-month path completed through three conscious commitments: a six-month foundation, followed by two optional three-month Reigns.
You are never required to commit financially to the entire year at once. You are asked only to complete the phase of work you begin.
We may recommend pausing certain coaching exercises or coordinating with a therapist when deeper clinical support is indicated.
Whenever possible, coaching ends through a conscious completion process rather than an abrupt disappearance. If you need to leave during an active phase of the work, we will use your final session to integrate what has emerged, identify appropriate support, and create a responsible transition plan.
-
Two 60-minute private coaching sessions each month.
These are the primary spaces for shadow work, emotional integration, archetypal exploration, relationship strategy, embodiment, and conscious practice.
-
Three of your sessions will be extended 90-minute milestone sessions to mark the your movement from unconscious relationship patterns to conscious self-rule.
-
One 20-minute check-in call each month between primary sessions.
These brief calls help you:
Address a current relational decision
Prepare for a difficult conversation
Interrupt an activated pattern
Clarify a boundary
Reconnect with your current coaching objective
These are focused integration calls rather than additional full coaching sessions.
-
Private text, email, or voice-message access for brief coaching support between sessions.
This support may be used to:
Reality-check an activated response
Prepare language for a conversation
Share an insight, dream, or emotional trigger
Receive a reflective question or grounding prompt
Stay accountable to an agreed action
-
A limited number of 15-minute calls may be included for moments when an old pattern is actively attempting to take over.
These calls are for immediate coaching focus:
What is happening?
What is being triggered?
What does the old pattern want you to do?
What would self-rule choose instead?
Frequently Asked Questions
-
No. Relationship King is designed as a twelve-month developmental journey, but you are not required to commit financially to the entire year at the beginning.
You begin with Take Back Your Crown, the six-month foundational phase. This gives us enough time to identify the pattern, work with the shadow, and integrate what emerges by strengthening your voice, boundaries, and self-trust.
At the end of the six months, you may graduate, move into lighter maintenance support, or continue into the next three-month Reign.
You are asked to complete the phase you begin—not blindly commit to a year before you know what the work is like.
-
Life changes. Financial, health, family, or personal circumstances may make it necessary to pause or end coaching.
Whenever possible, we will not end in the middle of an activated process without creating a conscious transition. Your final session will focus on integrating what has emerged, identifying what still needs support, and creating a practical plan for moving forward.
Depending on your circumstances, options may include:
A temporary pause
A lower-frequency maintenance plan
A step-down level of support
A responsible completion and referral plan
The goal is not to keep you trapped in coaching. It is to help you distinguish between a conscious ending and the old pattern of disappearing when the work becomes uncomfortable.
-
No.
You may be partnered, dating, single, separated, divorced, healing from a painful relationship, or deciding whether a current relationship is right for you.
Relationship King focuses first on the relationship patterns within you: how you respond to intimacy, rejection, desire, uncertainty, conflict, and emotional activation.
You do not need another person in the room—or even in your life—to reclaim your voice, boundaries, identity, and capacity for freer relationships.
-
No. Relationship King is a coaching program, not psychotherapy, mental-health treatment, or crisis care.
Coaching focuses on present-day patterns, conscious choices, personal development, identity, relationships, goals, and how you want to move forward.
We may explore the history and emotional origins of a pattern, but the purpose is not to diagnose or clinically treat trauma, mental illness, or psychological disorders.
When deeper therapeutic support is needed, I may recommend that you work with a licensed mental-health professional before continuing—or alongside the coaching process.
-
Yes. Coaching and therapy can complement one another when their roles are clear.
Your therapist may help you process trauma, manage symptoms, stabilize your mental health, or work with clinical concerns. Coaching can help you recognize relational patterns, clarify what you want, practice boundaries, develop new responses, and apply your insights to your daily life.
I encourage you to let your therapist know that you are participating in coaching, particularly if emotionally intense material is emerging.
Relationship King is not intended to replace therapy. It can provide a structured bridge between what you understand about yourself and how you choose to live and relate.
-
I do not offer generic dating advice, communication tips, or a list of red flags.
Relationship King works beneath the behavior to uncover the unconscious patterns, emotional triggers, and disowned parts of yourself that keep recreating the same relationship in different forms.
My approach combines Jungian depth coaching, relational work, archetypal integration, and lived experience. I know what it is like to lose yourself inside love, rebuild after the end of a marriage, enter recovery, and discover that insight alone does not change the pattern.
We do not stop at understanding why this keeps happening.
We work to reclaim the anger, desire, vulnerability, authority, and self-trust that were pushed into the shadow. Then we turn that insight into an embodied relational spine: your voice, boundaries, standards, and capacity to remain yourself when intimacy becomes difficult.
I will not tell you who to love, whether to stay, or whether to leave.
I will help you become someone who can hear their own truth clearly, trust it, and act from it.
This is not about becoming harder, colder, or more dominant.
It is about benevolent self-rule: loving deeply without disappearing.