• Feel like you're dating the same shithead over and over?

    You may be dating your Shadow…

  • Struggle to maintain healthy boundaries?

    Your Shadow may have other interests…

  • Hitting a wall with work?

    Your Shadow can sabotage your success…

  • Have it all - and still unhappy?

    Your Shadow needs a word with you…

  • Find yourself procrastinating?

    Your Shadow may be afraid…

If so, you might be dealing with narcissism in your relationship. 

Figuring out whether you’re in such a relationship isn’t always straightforward, given that the mistreatment can be subtle and occasionally masked by moments of affection. The charm can be intoxicating at first. You feel like you’ve finally found someone who truly sees you - at first. Narcissists often shower their partners with affection initially but lack genuine empathy - and over time it shows. They crave constant admiration and use manipulation tactics that leave their partners questioning reality.

Confused?

Doubt your own sanity?

Emotionally drained?

How Narcissistic is your Partner?

Honestly answer 30 quick questions designed to measure your partner’s level of narcissism. Narcissism exists on a spectrum and everyone should have some level of healthy narcissism. This tool will help us gauge where they are on that spectrum, and evaluate your next steps.

How Narcissistic are You?

Looking in the mirror can be challenging, but honestly answer 40 quick questions designed to measure your level of narcissism. however you score, it gives us a insight. This tool will help us gauge where you are on that spectrum.

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Accept it.

If they wanted to, they would.

People don’t generally change until they are in enough pain. Being a narcissist feels pretty good, so it’s rare they seek any kind of treatment.

There’s a reason you were attracted to them. They held a mirror up to you. And here’s the secret. There is a goldmine of subconscious information in that mirror waiting to be expressed. Your True Self lies in the debris.

Are you ready to make a change?

Let’s talk.

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Listen Up

If you’re muttering “F*CK THIS” to yourself - congrats! You’re waking up.

This meditation helps you reset, draw the line, and return to self-rule.

Relationship King is a 6-month coaching container that takes you from confusion, chemistry addiction, and blurred boundaries… to clarity, self-rule, and real love.


This is not soft. It’s not vague. It’s a process.

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90 Days to Self Rule

  • In person or online meetings every two weeks to provide support and provide accountability. Email support through out your journey.

  • The King is Dead. Long live the King!

    Kill the voice in your head calling the shots. You’re in charge now.

    Let’s look at what keeps you stuck in your current situation. Accept the reality and focus on building your internal power by removing the inner obstacles keeping you stuck.

    Schedule your FREE CONSULTATION.

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Relationship King in 180 Days

  • In person or online meetings every two weeks to provide support and provide accountability. Email support through out your journey.

  • Take charge of your Kingdom and speak with authority because. you know your own mind and heart.

    Remove the inner obstacles keeping you stuck in old patterns, find your true voice and use it to build relationships that support and love you back.

    Schedule your FREE CONSULTATION.

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12 Months to Free Reign

  • This is the Long Road to Rule.

  • A healthy Kingdom provides. It provides time and means to dedicate to the higher good.

    With your own house in order, you can afford to build. What kind of family and community to you want? Let’s define it and start building it.

the FAQs on Narcissism

Love Bombing

At first, a narcissistic partner will shower you with affection and attention. It’s called love bombing, and it’s their way of reeling you in. They’ll tell you you’re the most amazing person they’ve ever met, that you’re perfect for each other, and that they can’t imagine their life without you. But here’s the thing: it’s all a manipulation tactic. They’re not really in love with you; they’re in love with the idea of controlling you..

Constant Need for Admiration

Narcissists have a fragile ego that constantly needs stroking. They’ll fish for compliments, brag about their accomplishments, and expect you to worship the ground they walk on. But no matter how much you praise them, it’s never enough. They’re like a bottomless pit of neediness, and it’s exhausting.

Gaslighting

Gaslighting is a particularly insidious form of manipulation that can make you question your own sanity. Your partner might deny things they said, accuse you of being too sensitive, or even convince you that you’re remembering things wrong. Over time, this can erode your self-esteem and make you doubt your own perceptions. It’s a dangerous relationship pattern that can be hard to break free from.

Lack of Empathy

One of the biggest red flags in this type of relationship is a lack of empathy. Your partner may dismiss your feelings, minimize your problems, or even mock you when you’re upset. They simply can’t put themselves in your shoes or understand your perspective. It’s all about them, all the time.

Manipulation Tactics

Manipulation is their bread and butter. They’ll twist your words, play mind games, and gaslight you until you don’t know which way is up. They might give you the silent treatment when you’ve upset them, or threaten to leave you if you don’t do what they want. It’s all about control, and they’ll stop at nothing to get it.